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Sex Warfare Breaks Out in Us Election

Sex Warfare Breaks Out in Us Election

As the race hots up, gay weddings have triggered a bitter battle between liberals and the powerful morality lobby. Paul Harris in New York and Lawrence Donegan in San Francisco report.


Standing beneath the dome of San Francisco's City Hall last week, amid floral bouquets and wide-eyed onlookers, Josephine and Gieseppina made their vows and were married; they have been together for eight years. Josephine works for the electricity company and Gieseppina works in a store. But their union is more than just an act of love. It is also a political statement.


'How come I live in the land of the free, yet am not free to spend the rest of my life in my own country with the woman I love?' said Josephine. 'If Gieseppina were a man, we wouldn't have this difficulty.'

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Sex Question: I Want to Stop Using Condoms but My Boyfriend Doesn't. What Should I Do?

Sex Question: I Want to Stop Using Condoms but My Boyfriend Doesn't. What Should I Do?

Dear Dr. H,


I've been with my boyfriend for eight months and we have been completely monogamous. I have been on the Pill for a few years now and would eventually like to use that as our main birth control. He insists on using condoms, which I hate, until he's ready to have children and acts as if the Pill isn't a reliable birth control method at all. What should I do?


Sex Question: I Want to Stop Using Condoms but My Boyfriend Doesn't. What Should I Do?

Read on for Dr. Hilda Hutcherson's response.


A. Your boyfriend might be aware that birth control pills are not 100% effective and may not want to take chances that you'll have a contraceptive failure. In my opinion, condoms are a good idea until you are married. Though I am sure that you trust your boyfriend, condoms do what the Pill cannot: protect you from a sexually transmitted infection (STI), even ones either of you may be carrying from a previous relationship. My advice would be to look for condoms that provide pleasure; there are some very thin but sturdy and effective condoms that feel almost like going bare. Or you could try condoms with extra latex at the top that give women extra stimulation. I'd recommend a brand called Inspiral. You could buy a variety of brands--and have fun "testing" them out until you find one you like. And if you do agree on a time to ditch the condoms, make sure you both have a full STI screening first.

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